There are certain, restricted conditions that could allow you to access some of your super early.
Severe Financial Hardship
If you are in a state of severe financial hardship, you can apply for a payment of up to $10,000 gross (before tax). However, you must have been receiving a Commonwealth income support payment continuously for at least the last 26 weeks. You will also need to satisfy the ElectricSuper Trustee that you are not able to meet reasonable and immediate family living expenses. You can apply for a release from your super under financial hardship once in any 12-month period.
If you have reached your preservation age, there are different conditions. That is, that you need to have reached your preservation age plus 39 weeks, you need to have been receiving Commonwealth income support payments for a cumulative period of 39 weeks since you reached preservation age and you are unemployed (or employed for less than 10 hours a week) at the time of your application.
Compassionate Grounds
There are also conditions where you may be able to access some of your superannuation under ‘Compassionate Grounds’. These include, amongst other limited conditions, preventing foreclosure or forced sale of your home. You can read more about the conditions of accessing your super under compassionate grounds on the ATO website (it is the ATO who administers this type of early access and, if you are eligible to apply, you need to apply through them).
Nobody should coerce you to access your super against your wishes.